ABOUT ME

Hey there, I'm Maria - an ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) and Relationship Coach living in the ever-evolving city of Berlin.

If you're anything like the amazing folks I get to work with, I'm guessing you've been through some real relationship plot twists and boss battles. Maybe you and your partner have hit a gridlock, with the same fights playing on repeat. Or perhaps you're going through a major life transition: starting a family, exploring new sexual or emotional boundaries, or reinventing yourselves as individuals. These moments can feel equal parts terrifying and exhilarating, can't they?

I know those feelings all too well. I've walked the path of heartbreak and growth myself. I've experienced the agony of feeling disconnected from my partner, the confusion of navigating unfamiliar emotional territory, the ache of letting go. But I've also discovered the profound joy and resilience that can emerge from these dark times.

That's why I'm so passionate about this work. I truly believe that growth is our superpower. It's like leveling up in a video game, except instead of unlocking new weapons, you unlock new depths of connection, joy, and inner strength. There will always be ups and downs, but the more tools you have in your relationship toolkit, the better equipped you are to handle whatever comes your way.

Look, we all know the importance of learning and growing in our careers and studies. But what about our emotional intelligence? That's the real secret sauce for creating the extraordinary relationships we crave. Training your communication skills, understanding your own needs and boundaries, these are game-changing life skills that anyone can learn.

As an ENM and Relationship Coach, I've had the honor of guiding countless individuals and couples through these pivotal moments. I bring a profound understanding of the human heart, forged through my own journey. I know what it takes to love deeply while also preserving your wholeness.

My approach isn't about prescriptive solutions, it's about empowering you to make the best choices for your unique circumstances. Together, we'll cultivate the courage to be vulnerable, navigate tricky emotions like jealousy and NRE, and discover new ways to reignite passion and intimacy.

Most importantly, I'll help you develop the discernment to know when to persevere and when to let go. Because the greatest act of love is sometimes the willingness to release - of our partners, our expectations, even parts of ourselves. It's about honoring your growth, even when it means radically reshaping your relationships.

If you're ready to embark on this transformative journey, I'd be truly honored to be your guide. Let's level up your love life and unlock the relationship superpowers that are already within you. Because the future you crave is closer than you think.

My approach is holistic, modern, and growth-oriented, integrating proven psychology and coaching techniques:

Gottman Approved Member

  • Certified in the Gottman Method: I draw on the renowned Gottman Institute's research-based methods for strengthening relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, and building shared meaning.

  • NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner: I use NLP tools to help you reframe limiting beliefs, overcome fears, and create new, empowering patterns in your relationships.

  • Positive Psychology: I focus on leveraging your strengths, cultivating gratitude, and building resilience to create a positive and thriving love life.

  • The Detect, Stop, Redirect Method: My signature approach empowers you to become aware of negative patterns, interrupt them, and redirect your thoughts and behaviors towards healthier choices.

  • Personal Experience: I have personally navigated the exciting world of ENM. This has allowed me to understand the practical daily applications of theoretical frameworks.

I am committed to:

  • Creating a safe and non-judgmental space: Where you can explore your desires, fears, and vulnerabilities without feeling pressured or judged.

  • Providing evidence-based guidance: I draw on research and proven techniques to help you achieve lasting results.

  • Empowering you to take ownership of your love life: I believe that you have the power to create the relationships you desire.

  • Supporting ethical and conscious practices: I encourage honesty, respect, and communication in all relationship dynamics.

I look forward to connecting with you and helping you craft the extraordinary love story you deserve!

WORK WITH ME

TESTIMONIALS

  • Working with Maria helped us actually listen to each other. Our relationship is more real and honest now.

    — Jamie & Chris

  • I was terrified of opening our relationship, but Maria created a safe space for us to explore our fears and desires. The Love Revolution program has completely transformed our connection. We're more intimate and fulfilled than ever before.

    — Sarah

  • Maria's communication techniques are a game-changer! We now have the tools to navigate difficult conversations with compassion and understanding.

    — Alex

  • As a newcomer to ENM, I felt lost and overwhelmed. Maria provided the guidance and support I needed to confidently navigate this new landscape. I finally feel empowered to create the relationship I truly want.

    — Jenna

  • Jealousy was eating us alive. We were constantly fighting. Maria didn't magically make it disappear, but she gave us actual strategies to deal with it. We're so much better now.

    Jose

  • I came to Maria for relationship help, but I ended up learning so much about myself. It's been a journey of self-discovery that's transformed my life.

    Tom

  • Maria is amazing at fostering trust! My relationship went from bland and surface-level, to intimate and deep! Our communication and sex life are fantastic.

    Carmen & Johannes