Let's be real: in the heat of the KitKat club, saying "no" can feel tough. But it doesn't have to be. This workshop is about making it easy, clear, and kind.
This isn't about being rude; it's about being real. Join me before Four Play for 30 minutes to learn skills that keep your play authentic and consensual.
We'll cover:
Feel Your "No": How to recognize your body's signals under pressure.
"No" as Care: It protects your pleasure, respects others, and makes our scene safer.
Club-Ready Scripts: Practice simple lines to use with confidence.
The Erotic Brain: Understand why changing your mind is healthy, thanks to the Dual Control Model.
Receiving "No" & Being an Ally: How to respond with grace, and help others.
A "no" isn't a judgment; it's your boundary. Mastering it builds muscle memory for honest communication and creates space for truly enthusiastic "yeses."
Protect your play, your pleasure, and each other. Come learn to show up in your true colors.
Where: KitKat Club Berlin (before Four Play) Who: Maria Boțan, ENM & Relationship Coach
Does the thought of approaching someone intriguing in a vibrant space like KitKat fill you with excitement, or dread? After years of online dating, our real-world "flirting muscle" has often atrophied. We fear being awkward, facing rejection, or coming across as "that person." But silence isn't sexy; clarity is.
This workshop transforms those fears into confident, respectful connection. We'll demystify flirting and equip you with practical tools:
Body Language Mastery: Learn the "Triangle of Trust" for approachable, respectful invitations. Read signals clearly.
Mindset Shift: Adopt "I'm OK, You're OK!" to conquer intrusive thoughts and handle rejection with grace. A "no" is just a vibe check, not a personal verdict.
Authentic Scripts: Master short, clear, respectful verbal approaches that resonate. Learn to give and receive "no" with elegance.
Fluid Consent: Crucial for spaces like Four Play, understand that consent is ongoing. Learn specific scripts for re-checking and withdrawing consent, honoring boundaries with absolute respect.
This interactive session is perfect for singles, couples, and the shy-but-curious who want to build genuine, conscious connections. Stop freezing, start connecting with confidence, clarity, and respect.
Ready to make flirting natural, fun, and empowering again? Check my schedule for upcoming workshop dates!
She shows up in every role, and that’s remarkable. Join our #IAmRemarkable workshop on 03/26 to celebrate and practice owning the everyday achievements that often go unrecognized. This interactive online session offers practical tools and peer practice to help you name, articulate, and amplify your impact across work, home, and community.
What to expect
Short framing on cultural barriers to self-promotion
Guided #IAmRemarkable exercises and breakout practice
Practical phrases and templates for workplace and online storytelling
Peer feedback, resources, and next steps
Who should attend
Women and femmes at any stage, and allies who want to amplify women’s voices
Reserve your spot to celebrate the remarkable work of balancing life’s roles. #IAmRemarkable #WomensMonth
Join us for an engaging workshop designed to explore the intricate relationship between the brain, desire, and intimate connections. This interactive session will delve into the Dual Control Model, types of desire, and effective communication tools to enhance your understanding of sexual arousal and intimacy.
What You'll Learn:
The mechanics of the erotic brain and how it influences sexual desire.
How to identify your unique patterns of arousal and inhibition.
Practical communication strategies to express needs and desires with your partner.
Agenda Highlights:
Understanding the Dual Control Model: Accelerator vs. Brakes
Exploring personal "turn-ons" and "turn-offs"
Building emotional safety and trust in relationships
Who Should Attend: This workshop is perfect for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of sexual desire and improve their intimate relationships. Whether you're in a relationship or single, the insights gained will enhance your connection with yourself and others.
Consent In Party Situations
Discover the art of consent in an engaging, fast-paced 1-hour workshop! Through games, role plays, and lively chats, you'll learn how to set boundaries, read cues, and keep interactions respectful—and most importantly, how to have fun safely. Join us to boost your confidence and make every social moment a positive one!
Saturday, Aug 30th
#aboutblank, Berlin